Look at yourself closely.

Priorities first We're talking about wants, needs, desires, and literal life stages, so take a moment to really look within. According to Patel, there is a significant difference between reconciling with someone out of loneliness and out of genuine love. In fact, says Powell, we frequently become so engrossed in our own conceptions of what we believe would be advantageous for us that we fail to assess whether or not it makes sense.

Have you just begun a new job? in the midst of a sizable project at work? A separate loss is being felt in another aspect of your life? Our emotions can be unpredictable, and occasionally stress in other areas might make us less rational. Additionally, it may cause you to make commitments that you don't actually have the mental or emotional strength to make (such as trying again with an ex). Before even thinking about reuniting, assess whether you're prepared to be a decent, healthy relationship. There is no point in attempting to repair a bond if you are not able to give everything right this second. Trust us, it will ultimately spare everyone a great deal of heartache.

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